"Congress has already passed the marriage defense act, which was signed by that crazy conservative, Bill Clinton. Same sex marriages in one state can't be used to force them onto others."
"Section 1. All persons born or naturalized in the United States, and subject to the jurisdiction thereof, are citizens of the United States and of the state wherein they reside. No state shall make or enforce any law which shall abridge the privileges or immunities of citizens of the United States.
Bill must be a hero of yours.
If you think the defense of marriage act is unconstitutional, marry a man, or several, and sue your way to the SCOTUS.