Ouch! That's a costly lesson.
If, in another life, some chippy pulled that with ME, the last thing any future woman in my life would ever hear is the word "marriage". If SHE brought it up, she'd be swiftly seeking newer, more gullible companionship, whilst I happily called out, "NEXT!!"
I've seen friends have their very lives and souls peeled to strips by divorce. I've seen both males AND females financially destroyed by it, and permanently removed from their children because of it. I am at a complete loss to explain why the rich and famous seem to regard it with so little concern. I guess Mark Twain was right.