Are you not doing the same?
Not at all. I do not smoke in non smoking businesses that I chose to patronize. In addition, I do not insist that all businesses that I may ever walk into allow smoking by law.
In contrast, your mentality insists that every place, whether you intend to grace it with your presence or not, conform to your ideal.
One is by choice, the other is by mandate. If you like to live by mandate, you do not belong in a free society.
Becki