No they're not. They're being "carried" by the smarter kids in those little consensus-is-more-important-than-correctness groups.
I don't blame you for being mad, but this "group math" sh!t appears to be sweeping the nation.
You might want to rethink the parochial school. I have a friend whose daughters are in Catholic school, and they're not Catholic. The religious instruction is not optional, but it has not affected the family's religious practices.
They are simply studying what the Catholics believe, rather like a course in comparative religion.
There is not much difference between this and the "fairness" crap Democrats spew out when talking about taxes. In both instances, the amount of effort expended is wholly irrelevant as long as the result is "fair".