Please point out to me where "my" side has ascribed special prominence to the decalogue. The Torah says explicitly that deviant sexual behavior is an abomination. Does civil law give equal weight to bank robberies and traffic tickets? Precisely where is the hypocrisy?
You're commenting on the Torah, and here I thought you were commenting on the King James' Version of the Bible. The hypocrisy is in that you put more prominence on lesser sins than on the Ten Commandments.
Selective interpretation like that is hypocritical and is one of the major factors that is causing the erosion that is happening in modern day religion and this country as a whole.