"We are all sodomites now: a case for sexual freedom" -- by Andrew Sullivan

In September 1998, two men by the names of John Lawrence and Tyron Garner were having sex in their home in Houston, Texas. Without warning, police broke into Lawrence's home and found the two engaged in what Texas law calls sodomy. The police had been summoned by a neighbor who had complained about a man allegedly "going crazy" in Lawrence's house. Lawrence and Garner were arrested, held for 24 hours and subsequently fined $200 after pleading no contest to the charge of sexual deviation. The neighbor was subsequently convicted of filing a false police report. Lawrence and Garner then challenged the constitutionality of their conviction in the Texas Court of Appeals and the Texas Criminal Court of Appeals, claiming it violated their right to privacy and to equal protection of the laws. Neither Court agreed. Last December, the U.S. Supreme Court decided to hear the case. Oral arguments are due March 26. Most observers predict that the Court will strike down the law, but there's disagreement about the grounds on which the Court might make its decision, and how far-reaching it will be.

The legal and constitutional arguments around this case are complicated and fascinating. But in some ways, they are secondary concerns. The most obvious question surrounding Lawrence vs Texas relates to a matter more fundamental than constitutional law. And it's a simple one: what is actually wrong with sodomy? Why is it immoral? And why is it therefore still illegal in thirteen states in the U.S. and in many countries around the world?

These are basic questions our culture has long avoided. For a long time, the immorality of sodomy was regarded as so self-evident it didn't bear examination. And then in the newly tolerant world of the last two decades, the issue simply disappeared. For those who disapproved of homosexual sex, or any non-procreative sex among heterosexuals, the subject was so distasteful it was passed over in silence. Since the laws had almost never been enforced against heterosexuals, there was no sense of urgency about their repeal. At the same time, gay rights advocates tended to avoid the subject as well. Homosexuality, these advocates argued, was not about sodomy as such. It was about love and friendship and relationships and family.

The morality of sodomy, of course, is inextricable from its etymology. It's a rare example of a sexual practice that actually refers to a place. And not just any place. In the Book of Genesis, Sodom is a city uniquely condemned by God for its waywardness. Its sins merit utter destruction. But what are those sins? Alas, the text is not specific. Most modern scholars believe the original sin of Sodom was a refusal to be accommodating to travelers. Others believe it might have been the sin of rape. Ezekiel, on the other hand, explains that Sodom and "her daughters had pride, over-abundance of bread, abundance, and leisure, but they did not extend their hand to the poor. They were raised up and committed abominations before me." Even in the New Testament, Sodom is condemned in terms of its connection with "uncleanness," and "adultery." When Leviticus condemns men who lie with men, no reference is made to Sodom itself.

So how did the iron-clad connection between gay male sex and the divine destruction of Sodom get made? Notre Dame theologian Mark Jordan's "The Invention of Sodomy In Christian Theology," is the deepest recent exploration of the issue. From the beginning, Jordan argues, non-scriptural sources definitely associated Sodom with a variety of sins: pride, disobedience, inhospitality and sexual license. It was Augustine who first went further and linked the place to "stupra in masculos" (debaucheries in men) and "flagitia contra naturam" (violations against nature). But even in Augustine, the sexual sins of Sodom were not exclusively to do with same-sex sex. They were to do with sexual license, abandon, and what became known in Latin terminology as "luxuria," the sin of worldly excess, incorporating gluttony and drunkenness and general self-indulgence. This interpretation in the early centuries of the Church did not supplant the older notions of inhospitality and callousness among the inhabitants of Sodom. It merely added new layers of iniquity. And for the most part, references to Sodom were not primarily made to determine the nature of the still-opaque sins of the city but to remind believers of the divine wrath that destroyed it, and could destroy them.

It's worth stressing here, then, that from the very beginning, sodomy and homosexuality were two categorically separate things. The correct definition of sodomy - then and now - is simply non-procreative sex, whether practised by heterosexuals or homosexuals. It includes oral sex, masturbation, mutual masturbation, contracepted sex, coitus interruptus, and anal sex - any sex in which semen does not find its way into a fertile uterus. In fact, since the medieval theologians who came up with the idea had no conception of homosexuality as a condition, it simply couldn't have been a synonym for what we now understand as homosexuality. And even with our contemporary understanding of homosexual orientation, there is an obvious distinction between sexual orientation and any particular expression of it. To give a personal example, I remember as a boy having fantasies about men, but I had no conception of any actual sexual acts. I merely felt powerfully drawn - by my hormones, emotions, needs - to men and boys rather than women and girls. When I found myself trying to imagine how these feelings might be manifested, I pictured simple bodily contact, holding, hugging, lying together. Sex was as yet beyond my pre-pubescent mind. I was surely gay; but just as surely, the whole concept of sodomy was alien to me.

So it's perhaps unsurprising that Jordan's research doesn't discover the actual proper nouns "Sodomy" and "Sodomite" until the eleventh century. The first and most influential polemic against it was the hermit monk Peter Damian's "Book of Gomorrah." Damian's main concern was that Sodomy was a clerical vice, and that its ubiquity among priests threatened the integrity of the Church. Given the period's expansive definition of sodomy - from a single act of masturbation to repeated anal sex - it's not surprising he believed it was rife. Damian makes no moral distinctions between any non-procreative sexual activities and believes that non-procreative sex between two individuals is worse than bestiality, since it corrupts two souls, whereas sodomizing an animal only corrupts one.

But what's fascinating about Damian is his struggle to understand the nature of the Sodomite. He had no understanding of what the Church now describes as an "innate" facet of human personhood. And so he keeps bumping up against the apparent ineradicability of the vice - something unique in human nature. All sins, after all, are redeemable in the eyes of God. But this sin seems immune to change. So Damian lays almost no emphasis in redeeming Sodomites, and most of his energy in purging them. This is where the analogy to Sodom comes in, and why Damian seems so intent on connecting this vice to the ancient city. Because Sodomites seem consumed by their desires, and unable or preternaturally unwilling to change, the only possible response to them is damnation. Indeed, Peter favors the death penalty for such behavior, in line with Leviticus. The logic seems to be that since these people cannot change, they must be destroyed. Their internal "objective disorder," to use the Church's current term for homosexuality, is akin to being possessed by demons. Worse, actually, since these demons cannot be expelled. So the Sodomite must be destroyed just as Sodom was destroyed - and the destruction is a vital reaffirmation of the divine order.

This linkage soon became an accepted part of Christian doctrine with regard to Sodomy. And the consequences couldn't be starker. In Jordan's words, "Peter Damian's central address to the Sodomite is in fact and rather clearly an exhortation to someone to step forward for execution." Like Jews, whose persistence brought into question the universal claims of Christianity, so sodomites, in their dogged resistance to change, appeared as a living rebuke to the universal demands of creation.

So gradually, what might otherwise have been seen as one troubling sub-category in the sins of sexual excess, one variation on the broader theme of "luxuria," gathered steam as a sin so great and so horrifying that it couldn't even be spoken of. To get an idea of how out of proportion the detestation of sodomy became, Mark Jordan assessed the various confessional manuals of the very early Middle Ages. These were books designed to guide confessors in the hearing of penitents. One popular text, written by Paul of Hungary, gave instructions on how to judge and absolve every sin known to man - from pride to sloth to envy and pride. But the sub-category of sodomy (dealt with under the rubric of "luxuria") amounted to 40 percent of the entire text! It took up more space than anger, sloth, envy, pride and gluttony combined.

The root of all this is the medieval notion that it is a rebellion against God "when someone spills semen outside the place specified for this." Some of this sprung from medical notions that sperm itself contained all the ingredients necessary for human life. The conflation of sperm with embryos, making masturbation indistinguishable from abortion, rested also, of course, on the notion that women were merely defective males, whose bodies contributed nothing to new life but a safe and temporary harbor. The sexism inherent in sodomy is epxressed elsewhere as well. In many medieval texts, the definition included procreative sex in which the woman is on top of the man, violating the "natural" supremacy of men.

Aquinas, the most influential of medieval Christian theologians and still the basis of "natural law" Catholic theology, took the depravity of sodomy even further: "After the sin of homicide whereby a human nature already in existence is destroyed, this type of sin appears to take next place, for by it the generation of human nature is precluded." Second only to murder! This came partly from a belief that sperm was embryonic but also because, "in sins against nature, in which the very order of nature is violated, an injury is done to God himself, the orderer of nature." While Aristotle viewed erotic acts between men as sins of natural human disorder as opposed to the sub-human practices of cannibalism or bestiality, Aquinas conflated all of them.

These, then, were just some of the deep origins of Western society's treatment of sodomy. And, although many such arguments have been shown to be based on bad science - such as the equation of sperm with embryos - others have endured. Some of this is not surprising. The argument that sodomy is unnatural, for example, carries intuitive weight. After all, if sex is functionally or ideally for procreation, sex with no possibility for procreation is always going to be teleologically problematic. But the weight of the hostility to it, the way in which it is singled out for intense hostility, the manner in which even mentioning it is regarded as dangerous, and the fact that it seems largely beyond the capacity of God to forgive: all these are not so easily explained. The notion that 40 percent of a Christian confessional treatise should be devoted to an issue that Jesus fails to mention once in the Gospels is certainly something that should strike the objective reader as odd. Ditto the comparison of non-procreative sex with murder. Part of it may come from simple heterosexual incomprehension at the idea of same-sex attraction. Part perhaps from a particular concern among priests and monks about sodomy's popularity within their own ranks. Part also from some kind of visceral heterosexual male aversion to same-sex sodomy. Part finally from a theology that regarded women as sub-human, didn't even believe that female sexuality was as valid as male sexuality and never even contemplated lesbianism. But, whatever the reasons, the foundations were set for the modern world's recourse to the criminal law to back up this theological aversion, a recourse that is reverberating even today.

In 1533, sodomy became a formal crime in England for the first time, as Henry VIII incorporated what had previously been exclusively ecclesiastical legalities into civil law. The early American colonies absorbed this legal precedent to varying degrees, with Massachusetts, for example, adopting a law against man "sleeping with mankind" as early as 1641. In most early colonies, the usual punishment was the death penalty, although this doesn't appear to have occurred often. In fact, from the beginning, there was a huge discrepancy between the rhetoric behind such laws and the willingness to enforce them - perhaps an indication of how extreme the phobia had become, and how unrelated to reality it was. The laws remained virtually unchanged until the early part of the last century when they were expanded in almost all cases to include oral sex. Most recognized no marital exclusion from prosecution; and in most cases, no right to privacy trumped legal culpability. By the mid twentieth century, all state sodomy statutes added cunnilingus to their understanding of "crimes against nature." Oregon and Maryland were able to outlaw mutual masturbation under the same rubric of "perverted practices." A few states even experimented with the forced sterilization of sodomites or their institutionalization.

But as attitudes toward sexuality gradually liberalized, so too did the legitimacy of sodomy laws, and their enforcement. By 1971, four years after Britain famously legalized private adult consensual sodomy, only three states in the U.S. had repealed them. But three decades later, only thirteen states, Puerto Rico and the military retained them.

But this liberalization was by no means steady. The biggest reality-check came in 1986 with the now famous Bowers vs Hardwick case. A gay couple had been arrested in a private home for consensual sodomy; and many observers predicted the Court would rule such arrests unconstitutional. After all, the Supreme Court had previously ruled in Griswold vs Connecticut that married couples had a right to use contraception, i.e. practise non-procreative sex, aka "sodomy," in their own home. It had also recognized a right to privacy in the choice of a woman to have an abortion. But when it came to the right to homosexual non-procreative sex in private, the Court drew a distinction. Chief Justice Burger's concurrence to the decision expressed the reasoning behind the ruling: Decisions of individuals relating to homosexual conduct have been subject to state intervention throughout the history of Western civilization. Condemnation of those practises is firmly rooted in Judaeo-Christian moral and ethical standards. Homosexual sodomy was a capital crime under Roman law ... [Eighteenth century English legal scholar Sir William] Blackstone described the 'infamous crime against nature' as an offense of 'deeper malignity' than rape, a heinous act, 'the very mention of which is a disgrace to human nature' and 'a crime not fit to be named.' ... To hold that the act of homosexual sodomy is somehow protected as a fundamental right would be to cast aside millennia of moral teaching. Burger dismissed any notion of homosexual orientation as a part of human nature or indeed any comparison to heterosexual private conduct as absurd. "Are those with an 'orientation' towards rape to be let off merely because they allege that the act of rape is 'irresistible' to them?," Burger wrote in a letter to Justice Powell during the Hardwick deliberations. "Are we to excuse every 'Jack the Ripper?'" (Burger's correspondence was unearthed and published by Joyce Murdoch and Deb Price in their indispensable book, "Courting Justice: Gay Men and Lesbians v. the Supreme Court.") Justice White, who wrote the decision, regarded the whole idea of a homosexual right to privacy as "facetious." He treated the case not as a matter of sodomy as such, but of homosexuality, refusing to say whether heterosexual sodomy was equally without protection under Georgia's law. When Professor Laurence Tribe talked of the sanctity of a person's home being invaded by cops policing homosexual activity, Justice Lewis Powell was offended: I must say that when Professor Tribe refers to the 'sanctity of the home,' I find his argument repellent," Powell spoke into his dictaphone as the case was proceeding. "'Home' is one of the most beautiful words in the English language. It usually connotes family, husband and wife, and children - although, of course, single persons, widows and widowers, and others also have genuine homes." But homosexuals? Inconceivable to Powell. Such was the legacy of the sodomy laws, and the culture and view of human nature they represented. The fact that Georgia's law was rarely if ever enforced against heterosexuals raised no red flags in the Court majority's mind. From being a sin that applied to all human beings, sodomy had slowly morphed in the popular psyche into being a synonym for a despised group of people.

But as attitudes changed, several states realized that laws prohibiting sodomy as such might be subject to equal protection complaints if they were exclusively enforced on homosexuals. Or they also worried about policing the sex lives of large majorities of their own heterosexual citizens. So, starting in 1969 in Kansas, some states amended their sodomy laws to apply exclusively to homosexuals. They were making explicit what had become implicit in the whole notion of sodomy laws: that they were not really about policing sodomy but about policing homosexuals. Perhaps the most spectacular example of that occurred in Texas. Texas even returned to the doctrines of medieval theologian Peter Damian in ruling that homosexual sex was worse than bestiality. In 1973, Texas legalized heterosexual anal and oral sodomy along with bestiality, but simultaneously fashioned a new criminal law directed solely at gays. This law was specifically defended as late as the 1990s by then governor George W. Bush. Three other states have such discriminatory laws, as well. Their constitutionality will be what is at issue in this spring's Supreme Court ruling.

But constitutionality, history and even religious tradition don't answer the more fundamental issue: why exactly is sodomy immoral? There is little doubt that Jewish and Christian scriptures prohibit such sexual practices. But they also prohibit divorce, which is perfectly legal across the Western world. And the same medieval religious tradition that fixated on sodomy was also riddled with anti-Semitism and opposition to usury. If the last two prohibitions have been abandoned as mere prejudice, why not the first? The only relevant question when we are addressing the maintenance of secular laws or social disapproval of sodomy is therefore not: has it always been so? But: on what rational grounds is sodomy actually immoral? Or to put it more starkly: Why is it wrong?

The fundamental answer is that it is unnatural. It violates the purpose of human sexuality, which is designed to foster procreation. And at some level, that argument surely makes some sense. There is something unique and miraculous about the connection between male-female sex and the creation of new life. Its connection to a marital structure in which that new life can be nurtured, protected and elevated is also one that is obviously vital to defend. In all this, Catholic doctrine affirms something life-giving and important: the nexus between sex, marriage and family. As a symbol of what sexuality can be about, indeed what it is ultimately about, this linkage makes moral and theological sense. It also makes social sense. The data is overwhelming about how better adjusted children are when they grow up in stable, nurturing traditional homes. It makes all the sense in the world for a society to find a way to celebrate and protect this arrangement, if for nothing else, the benefit of the next generation.

The trouble comes when this vision of what sex can be about becomes an instruction about what sex can never be about. To say that sexual activity reaches its heights within a procreative marital act is not the same thing as saying that all other variants of sexuality are immoral, let alone worthy of divine damnation on the lines of Sodom. Even within perfect, Catholic procreative marriages, after all, non-procreative sexual activity is inevitable. For some periods within a woman's menstrual cycle, sex cannot be procreative. Throughout pregnancy, sex cannot be procreative. After menopause, sex cannot be procreative. Moreover, unless people are married as children, there will always be a period of adolescence in which sexual capacity will far out-strip any ability to restrict it to procreation alone. These are simply facts. Human sexuality can indeed be channeled. But the standard that it must only ever be directed to procreation is simply one that no human being can ever fully live up to. Even celibates have sex drives. Is it possible that an adult male priest, for example, can live a long life without committing sodomy, if sodomy is defined as deliberate non-procreative orgasm? The answer is obviously no. In fact, the whole concept of an exclusively procreative sexuality, however beautiful in theory, is simply meaningless in practice. It does not exist. It cannot exist. It has never existed. Sodomy, at some level, is inextricable from being a sexual human being.

Moreover, sodomy is biologically hard-wired. Even in the course of an ideal-type procreative marriage, untold populations of sperm will be "wasted," along with any number of eggs ready to be fertilized. The amount of sperm a male produces cannot even remotely be exclusively directed toward reproduction. Those who argue that sodomy is immoral have therefore to acknowledge that nature itself has built in non-procreative sexual production of sperm and eggs to a ridiculous degree. There's an obvious reason for this: by making human males produce so much sperm, much of it superfluous, nature guarantees that the odds of some of it leading to new life are maximized. If this seems paradoxical, try this thought experiment. Imagine a parallel universe in which a human male has, say, one ejaculation per year. Suddenly the prohibition against sodomy makes far more sense. Such a precious and rare opportunity to procreate should surely not be wasted. But then look how far that universe is from our actual one. The average adolescent male, at the peak of his sexual drive, might ejaculate several times a day. If you are drawing logical inferences from nature itself, it seems to me that the reality we actually live in is far more accepting of sodomy than the religious and moral authorities would ever have us believe. Indeed their blanket and insistent prohibition comes to seem almost quixotic in its futility.

Moreover to treat human sexuality as entirely instrumental to the production of children surely demeans it. A marital sexual act, engaged in for reasons of passion, love, commitment or mutual comfort, is not rendered meaningless or immoral if it doesn't happen to produce another human being at the end of it. To say otherwise is to reduce human beings to reproductive animals, and the meaning of their sexuality to a purely functional dimension. The body, after all, is a complex thing. To speak of any part of it as having a single and exclusive purpose, in the manner of Aquinas, is to reduce the complexity of human experience to the relative simplicity of an animal. Is an eye being used immorally if you use it not see but to wink? Or a mouth somehow deployed immorally if we use it not to eat or breathe or drink but to smile?

Aware of the crudeness of the Thomist position, today's "natural law" theorists, in a new twist, have dropped Aquinas's insistence on procreation as the sole criterion by which sexual interaction can be morally judged. They now argue not from what appears to be in nature, as understood by contemporary or even medieval science, but what they posit as the "natural good" of marriage. The point of sexual activity, they now assert, is not just procreation, but the unitive experience of marriage itself - the permanent bodily fusion of two human beings of the opposite sex. The actual desires or sexual orientations of human beings, these theorists now argue, are not morally relevant. Sex is about the natural good of marriage; and all human beings must adhere to that natural good or disavow sexual activity altogether.

So sex is no longer about reproduction, and nothing else. It's about marriage, and nothing else. "The union of the reproductive organs of husband and wife really unites them biologically," theologian John Finnis argues. They become maritally, biologically one, and if they put any barriers between them in their sexual acts - condoms, for example - they are violating that biological unity, and destroying their marriage. Moroever because marriage changes the very identity of a person, non-procreative sex leads to the human being's spiritual and moral disintegration. Such sexual expression is a self-contradiction.

Notice how this new form of natural law, while trying to avoid reducing human beings to mere reproduction factories, nevertheless ends up exactly where we began. Even in a marriage, let alone outside of it, oral or anal or contracepted or mutually masturbatory sex is still immoral. Whereas in earlier natural law, marriage seemed to be a regrettable but necessary way to restrain the evil of sexual desire, the new natural law places marriage front and center and sees procreative sex as the critical and positive practice that makes marriage real.

This new doctrine is, however, amended yet again in the Amicus brief filed on behalf of the Christian right group, the Family Research Council, in the upcoming Lawrence vs Texas case. In Texas, the fundamentalist defenders of criminalizing same-sex sodomy face what might seem an insurmountable obstacle. They have long claimed that sodomy is wrong, whoever practises it - heterosexuals and homosexuals. But the Texas law only polices sodomy when practised by homosexuals. One might imagine that a principled fundamentalist would find this troubling: because it sanctions the far more common practise of heterosexual sodomy, while criminalizing the same practice for a tiny minority. But the new natural lawyers find a way to justify this. The Catholic authors of the brief, Robert P. George and Gerard Bradley, write the following: "The critical difference upon which the legal distinction rests is not the raw physical behavior but the relationships: same sex deviate acts can never occur within marriage, during an engagement to marry, or within any relationship that could ever lead to marriage. Physically similar sexual acts between married persons are constitutionally protected. Physically similar acts between unmarried persons of different sexes occur within relationships which Texas may wish to encourage, either as valuable in themselves, or because they could mature into marriages, or both." So sodomy is not only now legally tolerable within heterosexual marriage, it is even tolerable outside marriage, as long as the practitioners are heterosexual and can therefore be regarded as engaging in a relationship - if only a one-night stand - that could conceivably one day lead toward marriage. George and Bradley even go so far as to say that such non-marital sodomitic relationships between heterosexuals could even be deemed by civil authorities as "valuable in themselves." This defense of pre-marital sex from some of the most orthodox Catholics on the planet! George and Bradley then provide an additional practical reason for enforcing sodomy statutes against gays but not against straights: "Texas could reasonably conclude that criminal prosecution is too blunt a tool with which to distinguish along the spectrum of opposite-sex relationships, all potentially marital and many verging on or preparing for the strictly marital. Not wishing to intrude upon, damage, and perhaps destroy valued and incipiently marital relationships, Texas could reasonably decide to leave all these opposite-sex relationships undisturbed by the criminal law."

In other words, criminalizing sodomy as such, without taking into consideration the relationship in which such sodomy takes place, or how such sodomy could one day lead to marriage, is too crude a legal framework. It would also be impossible to enforce. Imagine a police force required to make sure that every act of teenage oral sex is monitored and criminalized; or a legal structure where every time an unmarried couple uses a condom, the neighbors could call the cops. It's simply impractical. But because there are far fewer homosexuals, and they are more identifiable, the law can be used to punish them and them alone. And because their relationships can never be marital, and therefore are of no social use, there's no social cost incurred when cops "intrude upon, damage, and perhaps destroy" such relationships.

The same reasoning occurs within the new natural law's theology as well. Here again, sodomy is officially forbidden. but when you look more closely, you see that it is only effectively forbidden to gays. What, for example, if a marriage cannot naturally or biologically conform to the demands of non-sodomitic sex? What if a spouse is infertile, or if one spouse is post-menopausal? You might think these would sadly remain outside the possibility of marriage as the good defined by the new theologians, alongside homosexuality. But no. In these cases, non-procreative sex is still okay as long as it conforms to the model in type. In other words, as long as the couple is mimicking procreative sex, they're ok. Even if they have no intention of being procreative, it's ok. Even if they know their act is not procreative, it's morally fine. Non-procreative sex is now permissible in a whole variety of circumstances, as long as you're heterosexual. The Church's modern doctrines - in a curious echo of Texas' exclusively anti-gay sodomy law - are designed not to ban sodomy from human sexuality, but to ban homosexuals from sexual dignity.

What the George-Bradley brief shows is how the principled stand against all sodomy - however implausible - has now essentially been abandoned as a basis for law in modern society, even by its most fervent defenders. What's left is a residue of hostility toward homosexuals, animus by any other name. Logically, of course, heterosexual sodomy should be more stigmatized than homosexual sodomy. A man and a woman, after all, have a choice to procreate or not procreate; two women or two men do not. If you're trying to frame the law to encourage procreation, why only apply it to those who cannot procreate at all, while removing such an incentive for the only group for whom such an incentive makes sense? Just as the intense prohibition of sodomy seems to have emerged in part from a fear and incomprehension of homosexuals, so it has ended up centuries later in exactly the same place: as a means not of upholding a universal morality, but of maintaining a stigma against a single class of persons.

As a simple empirical matter, we are all sodomites now, but only homosexuals bear the burden of the legal and social stigma. Some studies have found that some 90 to 95 percent of heterosexual couples engage in oral sex in their relationships; similar numbers use contraception; a smaller but still significant number practise anal sex. We don't talk about this much because we respect the privacy of intimacy, as we should. The morality of sex in today's America and Western Europe is rightly one in which few public moral judgments are made of any sexual experiences that are private, adult and consensual. Within these parameters, non-procreative sex is simply the norm.

But to say they're the norm is perhaps too defensive. The norm is also, many have come to understand, a social, personal and moral good. It is hard to see why, for example, sexual fantasy, escape, pleasure, are somehow inimical to human flourishing - and plenty of evidence that their permanent or too-rigid suppression does actual psychological and spiritual harm. Relationships which include sexual adventure and passion and experiment are not relationships of "disintegrated" people, but relationships in which trust is the prerequisite for relief, release and renewal. The meaning of these sexual experiences is as varied as the people in them. And there are many contexts in which to understand these sexual experiences other than as purely procreative.

You can think of sex - within marriage and in other relationships - as a form of bonding; as a way to deepen and expand the meaning of intimacy; as a type of language even, where human beings can communicate subtly, beautifully, passionately - but without words. And in a world where our consumer needs are exquisitely matched by markets, in which bourgeois comfort can almost anesthetize a sense of human risk and adventure, sex remains one of the few realms left where we can explore our deepest longings, where we can travel to destinations whose meaning and dimensions we cannot fully know. It liberates and exhilarates in ways few other experiences still do. Yes, taking this to extremes can be destructive. And yes, if this experience trumps or overwhelms other concerns - the vows of marriage, the trust of a faithful relationship, or the duty we bear to children - then it can be destructive as well as life-giving. But the idea that expressing this human freedom is somehow intrinsically and always immoral, that it somehow destroys the soul, is an idea whose validity is simply denied in countless lives and loves.

But if many of us - gay and straight - have absorbed this new sexual consensus, we still deny it in our legal and social treatment of homosexual sex. And the convolutions that legal authorities now have to go through to justify this discrepancy are getting more and more elaborate and less and less convincing. At some point, the unfairness of this must surely impinge itself on our collective consciousness. And the lingering of sodomy laws is but one book-end in this anachronistic structure. The other book-end is marriage itself. One reason there is such fierce resistance to the repeal of sodomy laws is that the supporters of such laws fear that once those laws are removed, there is essentially no legally relevant difference between heterosexual marriages and homosexual relationships. The two issues might be legally separate - as we can see by the many states that have no sodomy laws and yet retain exclusively heterosexual marriage laws. But logically, this discrepancy makes less and less sense. Both gay and straight relationships in our culture are now primarily sodomitic in their sexual practices. Both adhere to the general principles of equality, adulthood, privacy and consent that have become our de facto social norms for adult relationships. Within both straight and gay relationships, there is a wide spectrum of conformity to monogamy, child-rearing, social responsibility and gender roles. And as the years go by and as legally protected same-sex relationships mature as a social institution, the differences that remain are slowly diminishing.

Yes, there are psychological and social distinctions between these types of relationships. Lesbian relationships - which make up the majority of same-sex civil unions in the only state where such unions are legal, Vermont - tend to be more monogamous than many heterosexual relationships. And they tend to house more children than gay male relationships. Gay male relationships tend to be less monogamous than their lesbian and heterosexual counterparts. Heterosexual relationships, for their part, also span the gamut - from traditional life-long monogamy to serial marriages and multiple divorces, as well as discreet philandering on the part of many men and even, in some cases, explicitly open marriages or, in some ethnic subcultures, arranged ones. In our multi-cultural world, the differences between a Muslim arranged marriage in a Maryland suburb and a baby-boomer third marriage in Tribeca are easily as great as that between gay and straight couples. Ditto the difference between a yuppie power couple with multiple apartments and no children and a home-schooling family of ten in the Rockie Mountains. Such diversity doesn't lead us to make legal distinctions between the validity of the marriages involved. In fact, the extraordinary diversity of the content of marriages makes us even more concerned to provide some over-arching and unifying social and legal uniformity. And once you have removed the criterion of sodomy as the distinctive difference between gays and straights, and between marriage and non-marriage, you can see how arbitrary both sodomy laws and laws forbidding gay marriage actually are.

We live in a world, of course, where the past obviously matters. The tortured history of the persecution of homosexuals, structured around the deep and often hysterical aversion to sodomy, looms over us still. It dictates patterns of thought; it clouds relevant distinctions; it can continue to stigmatize and marginalize the "other" even when the original reason for that stigmatization has long since been washed away. But history isn't destiny. And unreason isn't a good basis for law. Perhaps this year will finally see the United States Supreme Court actually assess not the power of inherited fear but the illogic of inherited discrimination. Perhaps it will find a way, as it has with other marginalized people in the past, to liberate a whole class of persons not merely from the stain of a dark and painful persecution but into the possibility of a more humane future: to give human desire meaning, gay love structure, and sex for all of us the freedom and dignity it has so long been denied.

Yes, it is sort of a point to say, "If heterosexuals are free to have 'gay sex' (multiple partners, sodomy, divorce at will, adultery) without legal or social sanction-why deny it to homosexuals except as a manifestation of prejudice".

It's actually a pretty good argument-except Sullivan overdoes it to say that the madness of the past thirty years is the fixed standard from humanity cannot and will not (you should pardon the expression) deviate.

It's far more likely that the sexual chaos of the present will lead to either the destruction of the society or to a return to Pleasantville-in either case, an undesirable outcome for Sullivan's POV.

Most modern scholars believe the original sin of Sodom was a refusal to be accommodating to travelers. Others believe it might have been the sin of rape. Ezekiel, on the other hand, explains that Sodom and "her daughters had pride, over-abundance of bread, abundance, and leisure, but they did not extend their hand to the poor. They were raised up and committed abominations before me." Even in the New Testament, Sodom is condemned in terms of its connection with "uncleanness," and "adultery." When Leviticus condemns men who lie with men, no reference is made to Sodom itself.

What nonsense.

The homosexual wickedness of Sodom is clearly illustrated in the Bible;

Genesis 19:4
But before they lay down, the men of the city, [even] the men of Sodom, compassed the house round, both old and young, all the people from every quarter:

Genesis 19:5
5 And they called unto Lot, and said unto him, Where [are] the men which came in to thee this night? bring them out unto us, that we may know them.

Genesis 19:6
6 And Lot went out at the door unto them, and shut the door after him,

Genesis 19:7
7 And said, I pray you, brethren, do not so wickedly.

The "wickedness" of what the men of Sodom were attempting was homosexual in nature. What they were proposing was homosexual rape. For such an event to include virtually "all the men of the city, both young and old"..homosexuality must have been commonly practiced.

There is evidence in other early literature connecting Sodom with more general homosexual practices:

The second-century BC Testament of the Twelve Patriarchs labels the Sodomites "sexually promiscuous"(Test. of Benjamin 9:1)and refers to "Sodom which departed from the order of nature" (Test. of Nephtali 3:4). Both Philo and Josephus plainly name same-sex realtions as the characteristic veiw of Sodom.

Ezekiel also says of the Sodomites "they were haughty and committed abomination before me" and the sexual nature of these "abominations" is suggested in 2Peter 2:6-7; "And turning the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah into ashes, condemned them to destruction...and delivered righteous Lot, who was oppressed by the filthy conduct of the wicked"..

In Jude 7 we similarly read "Like wise Sodom and Gomorrah and the surrounding cities, which in the same manner as they, indulged in sexual immorality and pursued unnatural lust, serve as an example by undergoing punishment"[NRSV].

Note....Jude 1:7 (KJV)
Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after strange flesh, are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire. .... indicate that homosexuality is a sub- category of fornication.
That this is the type of fornication being described here.
Certainly the Sodomites were guilty of other sins, besides homosexuality..but with the number of the references being to Sodoms sexual sins,and the indication homosexuality was widely practiced..it is likely this is one of the many reasons judgement fell on them.

You can see the benefits of this point as a strategy. Reducing love, friendship, passion and companionship - the critical elements of most gay relationships - to a simple physical act is extremely reductive. We'd never talk about heterosexual marriage primarily in terms of vaginal intercourse, or merely sexual needs. It slights the depth and variety of the heterosexual relationship. Nevertheless, it remains a simple fact that a large amount of the opposition to gay equality (especially among heterosexual men) comes from a visceral association of gay relationships with sodomy. And indeed, from the beginnings of our cultural discomfort with homosexuality, almost the entire legacy of stigmatization has been focused on one thing only: the illicit, vile, unmentionable "crime against nature" which the law has long designated as the definition of homosexuality itself. In some ways, then, a new focus on sodomy is welcome. It offers us an opportunity to come to grips not only with the real nature of homosexuality, but also with the real nature of those who wish to retain and even advance its stigmatization. And it provides an occasion not simply to negatively defend the right to private, consensual sodomy, but to positively defend its morality as well.
A strategy eh? We'd never talk about heterosexual marriage primarily in terms of vaginal intercourse, or merely sexual needs.... because there is MUCH more to a decent heterosexual marriage than vaginal intercourse. A decent marriage provides a mechanism for raising kids, establishing a traditional family that will go on and on through time and if healthy, provide generations of good citizens.
On the other hand, homosexual relationships are predominantly non-monogmamous... because homosexuals are extremely promiscuous... and therefore disease is their primary social contribution.
I think the real strategy is to bluntly attack the problem, then spend about 50 paragraphs dancing around the obvious, trying to divert attention from the fact that morality is defined by society, that American Society is based on Judeo-Christian values, and that our society has deemed homosexual acts, and many heterosexual acts to be deviant... and that the true agenda of the homosexuals is to overturn our morality to make it fit their perverted needs.

Several points:

1) theologian John Finnis ...whatever.
Finnis is a legal philosopher by trade, not a theologian regardless of how Sullivan chooses to classify him.

2) Andrew Sullivan knows about as much about natural law philosophy (traditional or contemporary) as I do about the nuances of the Tagalog language.

3) Sullivan is right that the logical key to the proscription of sodomy is the fact that it is unnatural. What we are currently seeing is the late stages of an intellectual/social movement which has completely redefined "nature" by stripping the concept of its essentially teleological meaning. As a consequence, what used to be considered the ultimate crime against nature is now, according to Sullivan, simply a natural fact that we all just need to deal with.

Again, I believe he is denying the Biblical evidence connecting the term sodomy to homosexuality.

We saw the example of the men of Sodom at Lott's door, demanding the "men" inside for homosexual purposes.

Then we see in Jude 1:7 (KJV) Even as Sodom and Gomorrha, and the cities about them in like manner, giving themselves over to fornication, and going after *strange flesh,* are set forth for an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.

Going after "strange flesh" is presented as "pursued unnatural lust" in the NRSV.
And "unnatural" in reference to sexual behavior is used in Romans to describe homosexuality.

It indicates sexual lust for something "other than" the normal or natural object.

When we add to this the reference of Sodom's homosexuality, called "wicked" by Lot immediately before God destroys Sodom ....Well the idea that there is not real connection between the term sodomy and homosexuality is simply another example of gay theology trying to redefine the scriptures to suit their agenda.

Such noble words. Are you aware that the homos of the legal action refused to stop their buggery when the police pounded on the apartment door, refused to stop their buggery when the police made their way down the hall to the 'chamber'? Are you aware that these same homos were 'reported' by their fellow homo who lived next door, and that these same homos (the one next door and one of the ones actrively buggering when the cops broke in) tried previously to get a court case going regarding homo marriage laws in Texas and another state?

These homos set up the case for getting it into the courts. What I still have been unable to discover is, which one of the SC judges brought this crap forawrd on their activist agenda in order to get three more judges to sign on and the High Court take the case under review! I'll bet it was Ruth'let's lower the age of consent to 12'Ginsberg!

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