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Many times =) And if it's done well and to its fullest extent (i dont want to get too graphic here) there was never a need to go any further.

I agree that adults can make this distinction, but teenagers? While, I think there may be some unusually mature teenagers out there, most are not going to be able to stop - I wasn't able to stop at that age.

"I agree that adults can make this distinction, but teenagers? While, I think there may be some unusually mature teenagers out there, most are not going to be able to stop - I wasn't able to stop at that age."

I most definitely was not a very mature teenager, but I can remember three partners where we went just this far, stopped and never went any further. At least where I grew up (in a conservative Southern city), many girls thought this was OK but going "all the way" was not. And this was 20 years before I had even heard of Bill Clinton. The idea that oral sex isn't the same as sex has been around for quite a while.