[sneakypete]

There's no difference between being unfaithful to a current husband and being unfaithful to a future husband except the nature of the excuse.

Maybe not on your home planet,but here on Earth things are different.

[Age of Reason]

Sorry, but it's the best demonstration a woman can give of adherence to an ideal.

Indeed, women are slower to arouse for just that reason.

And the traditional attitude of men losing respect for women who sleep with them outside of marriage, is an inborn instinct bred into man by evolution.

Also bred into man by evolution is the ability to supress his inborn ideals--but not without cost to his mental health.

The insult will fester and seep-out through the years to make the marriage lest trusting even to the point of undermining it.

If a woman wants sex, marry first; but only if that is strongly encouraged by society--to hold such beliefs in a society hostile to them is to build a sandcastle with the tide coming in.

And ours has become a society hostile to those ideals that best serve heterosexual families, which is why families are declining--marriage and family in such a society is increasingly seen as more trouble than it is worth.

Of course some will protest they have a happily married family life--but the statistics tell the truth about where society as a whole is heading.