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Yes, potentially. However, I don't see letting the guy off the hook in the great majority of cases if he's as thoughtless as the woman, regardless. Besides, didn't you imply that he wasn't a breadwinner, IAC? It would seem that nothing' from nothin' equals nothin' if so.

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Besides, with an already troubled marriage, the argument could easily be made that knowing the man was having children by others' wives could be seen as a positive opportunity to make that break with less overall emotional damage.