Why is it my mother's fault more? I blame both of them equally... My mother has at least apologized for what happened and my father never spoke to me after my mother finally had enough courage to leave his worthless butt.
Your mother apparently did the best thing in the end and I commend her for it, from what you describe. However, that does not relate to any of my other observations here.
While I am not really comfortable commenting on your personal situation; my premise is as follows:
Sex is ALWAYS the woman's decision.
Men may hope for sex, but women decide. Everyone knows this is true. Men dont turn down a sexual opportunity, unless she is a true skank.
Now, because of this, I believe that it is up to WOMEN alone to assess the quality of the men they choose to sleep with, or risk disaster.
I am all in favor of women who are raped having abortions, but for women who choose to have sex with exciting losers, they reaped what they sow in my opinion.