Not to be unkind, but I have long felt that the primary reason many men have more difficulty having sex as they get older is that they are foced to have sex with women who have also gotten older. Most men I know are turned on by a woman's physical attributes: firm, flat stomach; high, fulsome breasts; a well-turned butt; etc. So, as age takes its toll on the woman, it takes its toll on the man. (And viceversa, I'm certain,)You're right about the "vice versa part, Elwood. It's not easy for a woman to get turned on by a middle-aged guy with pasty white skin, a pot belly, a saggy backside, and other body parts sagging sadly. Especially when I work so hard to keep my body looking like it did when I was 25.
Oh, boy, am I gonna get flamed for this...
I'm with you Capriole, one must help with the preservation, of course a little luck and the help of the Good Lord doesn't hurt.
I work out at the gym at least 3 times a week, so you do have to work on it if you want to look and perform the part you want to play. LOL