There is no such thing a private morality because your lack of judgment is affecting us all. You claim to have a right to raise your children according to your own beliefs but obviously have no standard on which to base your beliefs. Without the standard of right and wrong you have no gauge to which you may calibrate your ruler. Your judgment becomes faulty and you walk in darkness.
You have no right to promulgate faulty or perverted standards of morality. Mans law is irrelevant and your rights are given by GOD. Without God and the standards of right and wrong from which to gauge truth you have nothing except conflict. Conflict you rightly deserve.
I strongly disagree that there is no private morality. It's called conscience and it is the essence of humanity. How else would you justify Martin Luther's actions, for example? Conflict, you to, rightly deserve. And whether you deserve it or not that's what you get. That's what we all get.