Nobody, I think, is missing that it's homosexual men.
The only question in my mind is whether the gay strategists have decided that they've worn down and demoralized the public sufficiently, that they can now take the hit and ride it out, or whether this all spilled out accidentally and they are now relying on their allies in Mass Media to perform enough damage control, to save them from a paradigm shift in public thinking about homosexuality and what "reconciling" really entails for the "reconciling congregation" -- and a little more specifically, for some of the "reconciling" congregants.
People who've been watching the GLSEN/PFLAG/HRC propaganda have always known that the ultimate objectives are the reversal of the relationship between Levitically abstemious churches and the gay community (moral rejectionists into the underground), and a toll of boys for the accommodationists.