I spent all last evening trying to convince these people that it is an entirely inappropriate accessory for a child, much less a grown woman, but I was shouted down [and called a lot of really ugly names].
Let them " shout me down" all they want. My good sense tells me what is appropriate and what is not. Don't let anyone intimidate you and sway you against your good judgement. I certianly will not give in to that, and I would hope you don't either.