[lady lawyer]

You know, a lot of people who don't consider themselves religious still have principles when it comes to loyalty to spouses, not having orgies in the house, etc. You obviously dislike religious people for some reason, but you don't have to be religious to think that the VD's "lifestyle" was wrong, and that they were bad parents for carrying on like that under the same roof with their children.

[sneakypete]

You know, a lot of people who don't consider themselves religious still have principles when it comes to loyalty to spouses, not having orgies in the house, etc.

Yes,I know. I'm one of them.

You obviously dislike religious people for some reason, but you don't have to be religious to think that the VD's "lifestyle" was wrong, and that they were bad parents for carrying on like that under the same roof with their children.

No,I don't think their lifestyle was "wrong" for them,even though it would be "wrong" for me. People have sex under the same roof where their children are all the time. Or do you go out in the yard to "do it"? Maybe you think there is a different kind of sex swingers have than other people?

The only "bad" thing I know of they have done was go so long without checking on their children. This isn't saying things would have turned out differently if they had checked ever 30 minutes unless they happened to check at the same time the kidnapper was in the room. You check on them to see if they are sick,choking in their sleep,have the covers on,etc,etc,etc.I doubt anybody normally does a "kidnap check".