[ArGee]

I would suggest that you don't even talk about someone behind their backs in a FReepmail.

We should be willing to live in the light.

Shalom.

[Khepera]

Good point ArGee. It should be avoided but would not be totally unacceptable. It would be a matter of personal choice. It may be that you wish to discuss what your response to someone’s inquiry may be with someone before you respond. That is an acceptable activity in my eyes. You have to be the judge. Use your judgment. If you feel uncomfortable about what your saying in public or in private then maybe you had better restrain yourself.