Thanks. We saw this thread earlier. See the comments by Nita Nupress on this thread. Somewhere (and I can't get back there at the moment to give you the post number because of the huge download of pics), she says something like: "He either died that way or someone went to a lot of trouble to
make it look like he died that way." We have all read of many very clever ways to kill people.
We had never heard of that peculiar sexual trend. One can learn something new every day. Sad that so much new is perverse as well.