[hunyb]

Ya know, I would love to be able to stay at home and take care of one of those wide-eyed beautiful curious mischievous living legacies, but my husband and i are in tremendous debt and both work full time jobs, i'd rather be a 'selfless' person and not subject the little precious to a lifetime of daycare and babysitters.......is that okay with you people?

[ReaganGirl]

not subject the little precious to a lifetime of daycare and babysitters.......is that okay with you people?

It's not only OK, it's admirable. You obviously have a grasp of looking out for the best interest of your children. It's far more selfish for people to have children that they know they can't afford and expect the rest of us to foot the bill than to choose to be responsible adults.