[Luis Gonzalez]

Did you and your husband allow your kids to watch you having sex?

If you didn't, was it because you were ashamed of having sex?

[MizSterious]

You know what, Luis, that was a stupid, rude, and ugly question. I specifically stated (please re-read my post) that they needn't get into the play-by-play account of the sexual acts themselves. Thus, your question was unnecessary and, in my estimation, deliberately obnoxious. I've played fair with you, and admitted (with sources included) when I was wrong. This post of yours is beneath most decent people. Please do not ever address anything to me or flag me on any topic ever again.

[Selara]

Did you and your husband allow your kids to watch you having sex? If you didn't, was it because you were ashamed of having sex?

This was not addressed to me, but as I am a part of this discussion, I must reply. This type of questioning is not conducive to any meaningful discussion. In fact, it is a discussion ending type of questioning.

The Van Dam's never once denied spousal swapping, and yet you continue to show them respect, sympathy and the benefit of the doubt. Yet at the same time, you insinuate or imply offensive things to people you are having a discussion with.

Golightly clearly said that children do not need to know details.