[Selara]

You didnt address my question, but I will address yours. I would think that practically every parent hides aspects of their lifestyle from their children until those children are old enough to understand the issue. I dont know why children should determine what adults do or dont do. They are children, right? I think you are overstating your point.

You seem to have difficulty understanding the word, "lifestyle." Would you agree that a single lifestyle is different than a married lifestyle? Would you agree that a homosexual lifestyle is different from a heterosexual lifestyle?

One's behaviors arise from what one thinks and believes. My children have had the example of a faithful, monogamous, married lifestyle. They know that intimacy between a man and woman in the context of is a joy. My kids may giggle or make faces when they see my husband kiss me, but actually...it makes them feel very secure.

I am curious as to why you feel compelled to defend and promote a non-monogamous marriage lifestyle. I am curious as to what motivates you into attacking monogamy.

[MizSterious]

"I am curious as to why you feel compelled to defend and promote a non-monogamous marriage lifestyle. I am curious as to what motivates you into attacking monogamy."

Reading this thread this morning, I had the same question. "Methinks ErickOKC protesteth too much." Maybe there's more jealousy here than is at first apparent.