[ArGee]

Surely you have much a different definition of "normal" and "unusual" then the overwhelming majority of Americans and, I'm quite certain, Freepers.

That would not upset me in the least. History has shown which definition is better for the survival of a culture.

I will admit that most people seem to get very upset at the idea that they should exercise self-control with respect to their sex drives.

Shalom.

[OWK]

I will admit that most people seem to get very upset at the idea that they should exercise self-control with respect to their sex drives.

And likewise others get very upset when asked to exercise self-control with respect to their impulse to nanny over the private sex lives of others.

[gdani]

I will admit that most people seem to get very upset at the idea that they should exercise self-control with respect to their sex drives.

One more time -- what is so magical about the act of marriage that those who are not married but engage in monogamous sexual relationships should be discouraged from doing so and should not be considered "normal" (your words)?