Tonight was Tiger Cub night and my husband took both boys with him. I had the evening to myself so I went by myself and saw it again.
It was fabulous.
So many subtle things elude me because (A) I'm a guy, and (B) I'm caught up in the moment. But now I notice more clearly that [SPOILERS] Aragorn puts on Boromir's wristguards after he falls, and that Aragorn wears Arwen's necklace. I noticed too the designs on Boromir's clothes, marking him as upper-class.
I remember my Josiah's (6) first watching. He did know the story, and I'm sure that helped. But I was concerned for him during the tenser scenes, and covered his eyes three times.
But one of the first tenser scenes is where the 5 Nazgul confront the hobbits on Weathertop. The hulking figures close in on the little circled hobbits, holding out their little swords...
... and Josiah leans over to me and whispers, "Red alert!"
Dan