As I understand it (PRE-DESTINATION), the SAVED are those GOD Chose to give saving faith to. All others were just as lost, they just weren't chosen. That is what it means to be pre-destined, that God CHOSE to save YOU or ME, but not BOTH, and it was entirely up to Him as to which of us was saved.
Is this what you are referring to? You object to God's sovereignty in salvation?