You are being disengenuous for you first stated that it was according to Calvinism and now you are conceding that it is according to the Bible. Nevertheless, I am at this time preparing a post to explain my Biblical position.
Woody, for you to be calling anyone disengenous is just too, too funny!
There are many things Calvinism has right (see my post #1195 on where the systems agree).
The issue of God's Glory is stated very clearly in Scripture (Jn.17).
The question is how would God be most glorifed, not whether He or not He will be.
Calvins system has God ignoring man's will after the Fall. Volitional theology would have God returning it.