We are discussing the treatment of citizens by the state. In that context, differences based on special privilege are anathema to justice.
Mothering is a special privilege? Granted by who?
Do you feel that the state view that children have a right to eduction is an anathema to justice?
Isnt public education just state mothering where you end up having to pay for other people's families?
But an actual mother and her familiy doesnt have a right to their own money that they earn? You would rather wait for the state to take care of the problems.