The final plank in the Calvinist defense-we cannot understand the workings of God (Deut.29:29)even if they contradict what the Scriptures teach about His love and mercy-let Allah be praised!
So it is we who do not understand what you are saying when your ultimate answer is-we cannot really understand!
Even though it contradicts Scripture, well so, much for Scripture, we have our feelings or philosophical opinions to cling to, those are more important then any scripture.
Even so, come Lord Jesus