You are so right. The sad part about all our family has been through is that nobody thinks they will die at 30, so they dont plan or prepare. My advice to anyone, especially people with kids is get your affairs in order so that your loved ones dont have to struggle with what you would have wanted. Tell everyone how much you love them because you may not get a second chance. My husband left for work and I never got to say goodbye. I am glad that he knew how much I loved him.
You are so right. The sad part about all our family has been through is that nobody thinks they will die at 30, so they dont plan or prepare. G-d bless you, Caitlynsmom. And may the people of G-d stand with you and help you in your time of pain.
To your list of preparations, I would add only one:
Pray today and tell G-d how much you love Him.
Shalom.