[Dan Day]

No, you didn't choose to be a male - you're right.

Wow, your reading comprehension *really* needs some work. That's not at ALL what I said.

Answer the question you dodged, please -- could *you* "choose" to have sexual attractions different from your current ones? Really and truly? I know *I* couldn't, and you completely evaded that point instead of attempting to address it or refute it.

[anniegetyourgun]

Of course I could choose any number of sexual perversions - porn, adultery, lesbianism, etc. It's a matter of the will that follows after the mind entertains the thought. However, since I don't have a seared conscience, it would not be possible for me.

I do have a good friend, however, who used to have sex with women and is now married to a man and they have children. It's all a matter of choice - kinda like Anne Heche chose to have sex with Ellen Degeneres for a time and then chose to have sex with a man that she recently married.