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Teen testifies he was totally teacher's pet
Miami Herald ^ | December 4, 2001 | CAROLINE J. KEOUGH

Posted on 12/04/2001 4:20:54 PM PST by PJ-Comix

The middle school student who police say had an 18-month affair with his teacher testified at her trial Monday that he lived a teenage fantasy.

The teen said Beth Friedman, 43, seduced him by plying him with lavish gifts -- trips, money, clothes, jewelry, a car and drugs -- and even did his homework for him.

The affair was a fantasy, Friedman's lawyer countered, but one that existed purely in the teen's imagination.

Friedman is charged with indecent assault, unlawful sexual activity with a minor and contributing to the delinquency of a minor. She faces 76 years in prison if convicted.

``She was the teacher everybody wanted because she let you do whatever you wanted in her class,'' the teen, now 19 and working as a roofer, testified in the first day of Friedman's trial. ``I could do stuff other people would get in trouble for, and she would just look the other way and pretend she didn't notice. So I started to sit at her desk just to see what would happen, and she just let me sit there all the time.''

The teen, who was 14 when he met Friedman, testified that he used drugs, his grades in school were ``horrible,'' and he was often in trouble for fighting. He said his friendship with Friedman grew as she began giving him rides home from school, and eventually became friends with his mother, the teen testified.

He would eat lunch with Friedman and another teacher in their room because he was new to Silver Lakes Middle School and couldn't get along with other kids in the cafeteria.

``They ordered pizza and Chinese food,'' the teen testified. ``I'd come back bragging to the other kids `I had Chinese food for lunch, what did you have?' ''

She started doing his school work, and getting permission from other teachers to let him sit in her room all day.

``She'd take my work from me and do it. Sometimes I didn't even know it was done. I'd just get a grade back,'' he said.

Friedman started taking him and his younger brother to a video arcade, then to movies and out to dinner.

``I'd page her and say: `Me and my friends are hungry,' and she'd come take us out to eat,'' he said. ``But then it got too expensive so she'd just take me and one friend out.''

Eventually, the teen's brother, mother and mother's boyfriend moved into Friedman's Hollywood condo. She took the boy on trips to Busch Gardens, Universal Studios and the Keys, with her and the teen sleeping in one bed and a friend of his or his brother sleeping in another, he said.

On one of those trips, he said, e Friedman performed a sex act on him while his brother slept. On the way home in the car, he said ]she performed another.

When he was 15, he wanted a car.

``She said: `If you have sex with me I'll buy you a car,' '' said the teen, who chewed gum and played with a rubber band on the witness stand. ``So I did, and she did.''

The teen said Friedman gave him money to buy drugs, introduced him to cocaine and would challenge him to contests to see who could take the most Xanax without falling asleep. She also bought him lavish gifts and let him drive her car and her father's Rolls-Royce, he said.

``Whatever I wanted, she got it for me,'' he said.

But Friedman's lawyer, David Bogenschutz, peppered the boy with questions about his story, particularly the teen's assertion that the affair ended after Friedman offered him $25,000 to impregnate her.

The teen said he asked his mother, who had been unaware of the affair, for advice. She went to the police, and he got angry because he didn't want the affair to end. He moved out of the house and in with a stripper, but sent Friedman notes asking for money.

Broward Circuit Judge Stanton Kaplan occasionally had to intervene when the teen gave defiant answers to Bogenschutz's questions.

``Why would a law school-educated teacher, who lives in a nice place, who drives a newer Jeep Cherokee, whose father drives a Rolls-Royce, pay $25,000 to be impregnated by a 16-year-old dropout with a drug habit?'' Bogenschutz asked the boy, who shrugged his shoulders in response.

Prosecutor Stacey Honowitz told jurors that no matter how consensual or bizarre the relationship seemed, it is still against the law for an adult to have sex with a minor.

``She did it for love, she did it because she craved him,'' Honowitz said. ``The theory that she's a wonderful, beautiful teacher can't protect her when she crossed that line.''

The trial continues today.


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Comment #281 Removed by Moderator

To: JMJ333
Somethings are important enough to save, and one of them is yourself, so that your marital relationship is intense--intense because you have singular special love that no one else can experience.

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Now try telling that to a 15 year old kid in a room alone with Petra Verkaik.

282 posted on 12/04/2001 7:19:58 PM PST by PJ-Comix
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To: cantfindagoodscreenname
I believe a boy who has made the decision to not have sex will not go with this woman.

If the woman looks like Petra Verkaik there is no will power involved.

283 posted on 12/04/2001 7:22:09 PM PST by PJ-Comix
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To: innocentbystander
Your meaning is that you have no class, and are proud of it. I'll set you on "ignorant". ;-)
284 posted on 12/04/2001 7:22:39 PM PST by an amused spectator
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To: Capt_Hank
You see, I was seduced by a married woman during the summer of 1960. She was 36 and me "15" and ready. I was a very willing pupil all summer long.

Are you sure it wasn't "The Summer of '42?" It was a movie on the same theme.

285 posted on 12/04/2001 7:24:43 PM PST by PJ-Comix
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To: PJ-Comix
I have started by teaching my child at a young age the principles of the Catholic faith. I also send him to a private school that highlights the benefits of saving yourself for marriage. I can't control what he does in private, but I did my duty as a mother to teach him right and have pointed out the result of said behavior. I don't want sexual basness to be the sum total of his being, as I believe there is so much more to life.
286 posted on 12/04/2001 7:25:30 PM PST by JMJ333
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To: JMJ333
I believe that self-discipline should be encouraged instead of bemoaning the fact that the boy blew his "piece."

Absolutely correct! My father would have taken me out back of the woodshed had I done what this boy did.

287 posted on 12/04/2001 7:25:58 PM PST by Loyalist
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To: PJ-Comix
How about that. I still watch that along with the Graduate. Eva is an old lady now, I guess I should talk at 56.
290 posted on 12/04/2001 7:32:34 PM PST by Capt_Hank
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To: innocentbystander
It was an offensive comment you made to me way back then, but I was busy typing to other comments and neglected yours. Forgive me.
My husband died four years ago, so I've had to teach morality to my sons through their teen years myself. I've taught them that women (and men) my age who lust after kids their age are SICK, twisted and evil and will bring them all kinds of trouble that they don't need in their lives if they don't run like hell in the opposite direction. An adult who can't be trusted to keep his or her hands off of a kid, is an adult who is capable of any kind of deceit, trickery, thievery, assault or murder to hide the "secret" side.
Look at how harshly so many here have treated this kid when he finally told the truth - if he had stayed away from this pervert witch he would be spared all of this character assassination (which logically follows corruption), which will define his "manhood." SHE will always be a part of him, and no kid deserves to be hijacked for life like this.
291 posted on 12/04/2001 7:33:13 PM PST by ValerieUSA
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To: innocentbystander
Man, you got that right; Petra is amazing.

And any kid who would turn down a weekend with Petra because Mommie says he has to hold to "higher standards of morality" has got to have his head examined.

293 posted on 12/04/2001 7:38:41 PM PST by PJ-Comix
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To: Capt_Hank
I still watch that along with the Graduate.

And all these years Mel Brooks has been shtooping Mrs. Robinson.

294 posted on 12/04/2001 7:40:44 PM PST by PJ-Comix
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To: ValerieUSA
Everything you said is true, but of the two, the ADULT should be held to a higher standard.
295 posted on 12/04/2001 7:46:48 PM PST by Republic of Texas
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To: PJ-Comix
Sex is just another spectator sport to you. Pop some popcorn and cheer your team. Benchwarmer.
296 posted on 12/04/2001 7:48:19 PM PST by ValerieUSA
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To: PJ-Comix
I see. So, he needs his head examined if he chooses to wait for marriage instead of screwing a 42 year old. Why didn't you just say you were a pagan liberal? Your sexuality is the sum total of your being. Funny how you couldn't address that smart-assed little post to me. Regards.
297 posted on 12/04/2001 7:50:22 PM PST by JMJ333
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To: ValerieUSA
Pop some popcorn and cheer your team.

Go Team Petra!!!

298 posted on 12/04/2001 7:50:36 PM PST by PJ-Comix
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To: Loyalist
:)
299 posted on 12/04/2001 7:51:45 PM PST by JMJ333
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To: JMJ333
I see. So, he needs his head examined if he chooses to wait for marriage instead of screwing a 42 year old. Why didn't you just say you were a pagan liberal? Your sexuality is the sum total of your being. Funny how you couldn't address that smart-assed little post to me.

So what is it about me that you don't like?

300 posted on 12/04/2001 7:52:33 PM PST by PJ-Comix
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