If a woman professed to love you (e.g. in the bond of marriage), and you let her enter into your home ("kingdom"), if she betrayed that love, you might not let her stay there until she showed more proof of her testament of love (in our realm, many couple seek a divorce for this reason, God, like your parents perhaps, continues to love you even when you do things that don't please Him).
True, but god is not offering the choice of stay here or not. He is offering the choice of stay here or go to hell and suffer for enternity. This is the same as my not only kicking my wife out, but forcing her to go live under the Taliban.
Ok Babe, either truely love me or I am sending your butt to Kabul. I will still continue to love you while you suffer. Bye.