Sounds like I'm a victim of revisionist history. Thanks, for the clarification.
The reason I know both sides is from having studied genealogy. One of my ancestors was killed while working in a field in PA and had his heart cut out and held in the air at knifepoint as a trophy. Another ancestor was hit with an arrow in CT in the 1600's near Fort Saybrook while burning off a field but he survived. He was wounded in the thigh. I could well not be here ;-) if the aim had been better!
There are several general newsgroups for New England genealogy at rootsweb where people have culled some of the accounts, mostly first-hand, from older publications. The archives can be searched.
Basically I believe it was a clash of civilizations and I concede that, at times, we treated them brutally, which I regret. I do resent the agendized presentation of history, however. My granddaughter learned the revisionist version in school. In choosing to refer to them as terrorists, they were certainly that in the eyes of many settlers although the phrase hadn't entered the English lexicon yet, at least in that context.