It sounds like you are practicing law without a license, and without an understanding of history. First, the creation of the United States preceded the peace treaty that ended the revolution. Did you get the ideas you are espousing in the Close Cover Before Striking School of Law? Following 7/4/1776, the Unites States Congress passed numerous laws, none of which were approved by the British. The fact that France and the Dutch, among others, recognized the United States, and provided them with arms, money and supplies, should put to rest any silly assertions that none of the laws passed by the Continental Congress (including borrowing money, printing currency and creating a standing army) were not legally binding.
The Declaration of Independence was the thirteen colonies of North America declaring to Britian, "We don't want to be a part of you anymore, so we are no longer a part of you.", but officially they couldn't be recognized as independent without the blessing (even if forced) the British.
See above.
"We" did not fight anything during the Revolution because "we" (the USA) did not exist until after the Revolution, whereupon the British government officially recognized the independence of the colonies (and even then the British tried to reverse the position later, hence the War of 1812).
Even Bill Clinton would blush to make such an obviously erroneous statement. The suggestion that we were nothing prior to the peace treaty is absurd on its face.
Regardless of what people think of the Revolutionary War, it was originally a civil war between an empire and thirteen of its colonies
Wrong. There is a huge difference between a civil war and a war designed to sunder the ties between a distant colony and a colonial power. If you dont understand that, Im not going to try to explain it to you. If you want to ask our British cousins, you may ask them if there was a difference between the war for American independence and the Civil War between the King and Cromwell.