Words escape me. How utterly sad!
My uncle had said that when he was in the Navy '56-60, my grandfather had become very ill. The RC notified him and made arrangements for him to come home. After he returned to his base, he found out that he had to reimburse the RC. He paid monthly, and kept receipts. He got called to Captains Mast, because the RC sent a letter to his X-O. He provided the X-O with the documentation, and it was cleared up. Never gave to the RC again.