Wrong. God knew from the beginning of time exactly who would be eternal and who would not. You do not choose God, He chooses you. God loved Jacob but hated Esau before either was born. You can chop that up all you want but no amount of hail Marys, our Fathers or indulgences will change it.
Are you sure you mean "hate"? My God doesn't "hate" anybody.
And since you are here, would you say that Scripture is the primary authority in determining what is true or false about God? Established Churches or other Christians are wrong if they contradict Scripture? And that the Holy Spirit guides you in understanding scripture?
SD