Boys take a worse beating growing up without a father, deal with it hon, I speak from experience.
Deal with what, hon? It sounded like you were trying to make a case against marriage because of the damage divorce can do. I was pointing out that the stats on marriage are better than that now, but that the children born to unwed mothers is a crisis and further supports the imporance of having both parents. Are you disagreeing with me about that? Because I don't get what you are sounding cranky about.