"You get over it."
He didn't. He committed suicide shortly after that.
Not good, too darn hard on the kids. I am sorry to hear it. Darned hard on you. That is a very tough break. Every bit as bad as anything I have had happen to me, seems to me, though of course I don't know. Maybe worse.
Spent some time looking down a gun barrel myself, but am still here. Some live, some don't. I have no idea why one lives and one dies. It for sure has nothing to do with how good a man you are, what you deserve, that stuff.