Could it be the clothes?
LOL, I gave up Ocean Pacific 20 years ago. Given my druthers, I dress more likeNorm Abram than anything.
I met Msdrbyat Match.com. At the time, I only had one digital picture of myself, so I used it. I met Msdrby within a week.
At the same time, a friend of mine knew what I was doing and went looking for my profile. He commented that the written part of my profile would turn off half the women in Dallas, and my picture the other half. My only chance was going to be someone from Fort Worth. Lo and behold...