Posted on 08/20/2013 6:53:49 AM PDT by xzins
I get that feeling welcome is important, but I wish this article had said even one word about the reason you should go to church in the first place — to worship God.
I see a lot about the seeker — as I always do in stories of this nature, but not lot about worship — as I always do in stories of this nature.
Yep. It’s about church research and retention.
However, as a pastor, I’m amazed at the number of guests we have that seem to be isolated and ignored.
People’s response: “We don’t want them to seem overwhelmed.”
My response: “Anyone worried about ‘underwhelming’ them?”
I wonder what the secret shoppers would think of the church if the pastor actually preached the undiluted Gospel and the congregation came under the conviction of the Holy Spirit? Pastors who concern themselves the creating the best here and now experience will end up with congregations who's bye and bye experiences will be not so sweet.
After that, it is one which preaches sound doctrine and has a congregation who seem genuinely interested in helping each other.
I believe it is these type of places which will fill needed leadership voids when TSHTF and many of our present ruling class get the Nicolae & Elena Ceaușescu treatment.
I do wonder, though, if the question ever gets asked. Personally it doesn’t bother me in the slightest if everyone around me doesn’t shake my hand in the ‘passing of the peace’ or whatever it’s called these days.
I do mind very much, however, if I’m made to sing worship team pablum off the contemporary Christian hit charts and then subjected to a message that isn’t centered on God’s Word. I don’t consider either of those things reverent to God, and since reverence is the reason I go to church, I’d rather see those things than feeling ‘isolated’. If I want handshakes, I’ll go and get them myself.
I had an Episcopal Priest tell me once that “Church is a product and you have to sell it to prospective buyers”. Make no mistake about it, most churches these days are not about worship of GOD, they are about worship of the almighty dollar!
Truth is stranger than fiction:
Analysts Predict Biggest Christmas Church Shopping Season Ever
Afraid of breaking news to pastors, family now attends six churches
These days, church is about marketing. Religion is about God.
And if you will pardon the digression, your s/n rocks. Thank you for your service.
That’s not necessarily so. You can have the a church that is perfect in its legal take on doctrine but cold as a fish. You can have another church that is perfect in its take on doctrine AND warm, friendly, and loving.
I pick door #2.
My experience as a pastor is:
1. People don’t reach out to newcomers because they’re actually busy touching base with family, friends, etc., who are already part of the church. In the excitement of that, they just get lost in the moment. It’s not unfriendliness that keeps them from caring about newcomers, it’s enjoying the moment with loved ones.
2. People don’t reach out to newcomers because they really aren’t comfortable with what to say or do.
3. People don’t reach out to newcomers because they are in their own private world when they arrive at, participate, and depart church.
A gangbuster parish priest draws in a few more, but not much more. The real draw for the daily attendee, that is, me, is being able to partake of the real Body, Blood, Soul and Divinity of Our Lord every single day of my life. Who WOULDN'T want that? I need food for my journey through this corporeal life and need food for my journey to Heaven. You know that we believe that the priest has the Jesus-given authority (Do this in memory of me.) to call down the Holy Spirit to change the bread and wine. It gives me peace, joy and hope.
I have an old friend in Texas who says that they have the same service of the changing of bread and wine in her Presbyterian Church. SHE also believes that the bread and wine are "transubstaniated."
Maybe it's different for Protestant churches.
More than likely, what this evaluator saw was Staghorn sumac, an ornamental which often gets confused with its poisonous cousin. Not only is staghorn sumac not poisonous, but the ripe berries can be harvested, bruised and seeped in cold water to produce a very nice drink which tastes close to pink lemonade.
Here in SW Pennsylvania, it grows all over the place, including hillsides and ditch banks. Few people use it as an ornamental due to the confusion with poison sumac, which produces a greenish white berry with looser clumps than the telltale red, maroon or reddish white staghorn shape.
I'm one of those few people. I have neighbors and visitors tell me it is poisonous. But the berries are getting ripe about now, so maybe I'll offer them a drink next time it happens.
We got about a half-dozen of these at my Catholic Church.
After Mass they come streaming to me, a lowly usher, with their complaints. The Priest is doing this wrong, the Liturgy should be done THAT way, etc.
I look like the Pope apparently.
I am a through the bible type preacher. We’re now in Genesis after having just finished revelation. To keep the balance between old and new testaments, I’ll finish genesis and then go to matthew. Then back to the old testament.
Why do it that way? So the people hear the entire word of God.
One part of the word of God talks about the church. Jesus called it “His Church”. In Acts we read of the church appointing deacons (servers) to deal with the physiological needs of the believers.
The only reason I can come up with for that is that the early church thought care and compassion to be important along with the other aspects of the faith.
Care and compassion is important, yes. That’s why we don’t worship as individuals. There is strength in the Body of Christ.
However, I do believe modern churchgoing is skewed in the opposite direction. My church, for example, will do just about anything to attract students from our nearby colleges. In so doing, it has cheapened the worship experience for many older members in the name of ‘churchtainment’.
The students don’t stay anyway, but this is the kind of story I’m sure our elders would read with interest.
Amen Brother!
Worship is not entertainment. Nor is a congregation an audience. The “service” is not a “performance”. Yet, it gets treated that way too often.
Too often we have those who think their job is to spectate and someone else’s job is to provide something upon which they are to spectate.
If the congregation is spectating instead of worshipping, going through learned motions instead of worshipping, or daydreaming instead of worshipping, or sitting on their hands instead of worshipping, then they have not worshipped.
None of that, however, should prevent a true worshipper from being friendly to a newcomer.
Amen to all of that, Chaplain. God bless you.
I’ll give you one example of what I’m talking about. One of our worship team leaders is a terrifically talented singer. Yet she is so into her own performance that she doesn’t realize that her job is to help the congregation learn the pablum we’re singing to try to add to the worship experience. There are people around me, especially the older members, who just stand there and don’t sing.
We get to listen to sermonettes between songs and occasionally even learn how they impact her own personal walk with Christ. Worship buzzkill.
Thankfully we have an exceptional pastor who teaches the Word at every opportunity.
My favorite “church” is the great outdoors with fresh air and good fishing.
After that, it is one which preaches sound doctrine and has a congregation who seem genuinely interested in helping each other.
your point 2. Sound doctrine doesn’t get us in heaven. “Go away, I never knew you..........” always haunts me. As I read the Bible more, it is about having a repenting/changing relationship with God.
your point 3. This helping thing has me puzzled, but I am getting more convinced we have to stop helping people and let God help them first. When we solve problems, we shortcut Gods work many times.
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