Posted on 05/27/2010 10:50:08 AM PDT by markomalley
>>I never had a chance to think about what I plan. It was all taken out of my hands and controlled by the state.<<
We all have choices to make.
Did you choose a woman in which to plant your seed?
Sure did.
Did you know that by doing that she could get pregnant and then you would be expected to support that child?
Hope so.
I’m sorry you picked badly, but you will be supporting that child for 20 years whether you live with the mother or not.
And it’s just 20 years, not forever.
Here is something to make you feel better though. I have two sisters. Both of them were manipulative b!tches with ex-husbands. The guys paid their cash and basically did their time. Right now, out of five kids, one speaks with her mother. All of them love their dads.
What goes around comes around, my FRiend. She may win now, but you will win later.
Thank you very much. That is encouraging.
I am over 40 now so 20 years equates to the rest of my functional life.
But, we shall see. thanks again
>>I am over 40 now so 20 years equates to the rest of my functional life.<<
Not really. You can’t even go on SS until 70.
Seriously, I ran a Psych office in Ohio. My boss got RAPED by his ex. Had to pay 4000.00 a month in child support when (I did his books) he made 3700.00 a month. He was despondent when he got the ruling.
I looked at him and said, “It’s not forever.” and it wasn’t.
I also said, “Your children will love you FOR ever.” They do. Sometimes we are dealt really bad cards, but would you really give up your child for some cash? If you had the choice, would you walk away from your kid? No, I know you wouldn’t.
Someday, she’ll get hers. You may not see it, you may not be there, but understand, Karma is a bite to someone who thinks she is right, when she is just a b!tch.
Big difference.
I am arguing against a guy trying to force a woman to have an abortion just because he happened to have sex with her one night without using protection.
Going by that thinking the woman should have the power to get him castrated for not using enough protection and knocking her up.
No one should be able to order any operation carried out on someonone else’s body, unless the person is incapacitated or has lost use of their mental faculties.
No one seems to be addressing the problem that if a man can legally oblige a woman to have his child, he is also off the hook if he says he doesn't want it. You can't have it both ways.
Ardent pro-lifers take note: If you think more babies would be saved if men had this right, you are very much mistaken. More women would have abortions, and if they didn't, both mother and child would suffer.
It takes two. What is so hard to understand about that?
If the issue is marraige, than why is abstinence only ok if you are 15?
You don’t want to have kids, don’t get married. If you don’t trust the wife, don’t get married to her. How hard is this? If you do get married, and she pulls this stunt, man up and move on.
You chose her, nobody forced you to get married to her.
If men were men and manned up you’d not see this.
don’t you mean the Bible?
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