Posted on 03/27/2007 10:09:04 AM PDT by NYer
If that were the case, she wouldn't be a second wife, would she? An annulled marriage is no marriage at all. I'm just using the term she used for herself. Why are you castigating me for that?
The typical sort of excuse from someone who wants to pass off the quotation of truth as subjective opinion.
Yes, all these things are so common among the hordes of young people shacking up today in modern concubinage. By all means, lets give them the benefit of the doubt on this. Undoubtedly, most of them are suffering from old age, medical problems with their reproductive system, and are taking medications which eliminate their sex drive. Most definitely, lets not judge them as being sinners just because they are living together and sharing a bed. They probably just want to be warm and cuddly at night.
Just like all those young teenage and unmarried 20-something gals taking the birth control pill are "only doing it to regulate their period".
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I DIDN'T SAY IT WAS COMMON!!!!
I'd tell you what I really think, but I would most certainly be banned. Let's leave it at that.
You know, Andrew---we're finished.
I'm moving on, since I can't say what I'm really thinking right now..
Please feel free to. It won't hurt my feelings, and I won't go run and cry about it like so many do.
You have freepmail.
Sandy, I believe you've hit the nail on the head.
I also think there is probably a difference with very small families where every single person present adds so much more to the gathering. Our family gatherings - like Easter, Christmas, and Thanksgiving - generally have between 30 and 40 for dinner and always more than 50 for dessert. Our children, their spouses, and our grandchildren alone number almost 50, though certainly not everyone comes to everything. We have long since accepted the reality that there were going to be a few "greenies and weenies" we don't know very well at every family celebration, usually brought by someone in their late teens or early twenties. Actually, we wouldn't have it any other way - we want our home to be welcoming, especially to those who may have nowhere else to go.
It is painful for me to remember that our daughters lived with men who were not their husbands, but we always welcomed them into our home on our terms. The relationships were sinful, perhaps even pervasively so. However, certainly not every aspect of those relationships were sinful, and we did see some tenderness and support coming from each of them toward the other. I remember one young man, especially, who wanted nothing more than to marry my daughter, but she was the one resisting. I always made it a point to let each of them know how we felt, but we did not harp on it, I don't think we mentioned it every time we saw them - to do so would have alienated them completely.
Mercifully, Joyfully, these children have returned to the Faith.
"Jesus says quite clearly that those who divorce and remarry commit adultery."
But the exception to that was?
You are probably one of the most priggish, uptight, judgmental and hypocritical posters I've run acrossed in awhile. Your claim to perfection is hollow.
There is no exception. Perhaps you are thinking of the word "porneia" in Greek, often mistranslated adultery in St. Matthew 5.32 and 19.10. It is certainly not adultery - see St. Matthew 15.19, and St. Mark 7.21-22 where the words for both acts are used in a list (the word for adultery is "moicheia"). The mistranslation is merely wishful thinking on the part of Protestants about what they would like the Bible to say, so as to justify their immorality before man. "Porniea" is actually an incestuous relationship, as is clearly seen by the use of the word in 1 Corinthians 5.1-5, and also in the parallel of Acts 15.28-29 (where the word is again used) with Leviticus 17 and 18.
I really very much doubt that whatever the first marriage in your situation was, that it was an prima facie invalid marriage of incest.
You are probably one of the most priggish, uptight, judgmental and hypocritical posters I've run acrossed in awhile.
"Am I then become your enemy, because I tell you the truth?" (Galatians 4.16)
You are really upset at Catholic morality, not me.
Your claim to perfection is hollow.
I don't recall a claim of perfection. Its certainly a goal (St. Matthew 5.48), but also not yet a reality.
"claim of perfection"
Said yourself you don't allow "sinners" in your home. That indicates an idea of perfection.
Could you point me to where I said that? I'm not seeing it.
I thought I had said I agree that it is wrong to treat sodomite couples, people living in concubinage, and the divorced and remarried as if they were just equally acceptable alternative living arrangements, and that there is no reason at all to welcome the non-family member of such a grouping into one's home, or to feel obliged to treat them like a real family on par with a married couple, or a couple practicing decent courtship.
I also thought I had said it is wrong to socialize with people who publicly flout morality, and that family members who persist in such wrong-doing should be cut-off as a corrective measure. I believe I gave examples of people like abortionists, hitmen, robbers, rapists, open sodomites or adulterers or the incestuous, prostitutes, pole-dancers, witches and fortune-tellers, drug-dealers, defamers of religion, sellers of immoral articles, abusers of women and children, abusers of workers, and the like.
If that implied some idea that I thought I was perfect, I'm sorry it gave you that impression. The impression I was attempting to communicate is that such people need a public rebuke, and their presence is dangerous to sound morals in others.
Basically, if someone is involved in an activity that traditionally would have resulted in excommunication (or that in Leviticus had a punishment of stoning or burning attached to it), normal people should have nothing to do with them. Most especially, people involved in the four sins that cry to heaven for vengence (murder of the innocent, sodomites, defrauders of workers, abusers of widows and orphans) must be shunned and avoided unless the contact is with an eye towards bringing them to justice.
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