[mewzilla]

You can vouch for the Rolex. It's your example :) You can't vouch for the sex being consensual. You weren't there.

[najida]

I was talking about rape in general and bad judgement.

We tend to put more on the shoulders of the victim in a rape case...ie...
"her bad judgment" contributed to the rape and use it as a defense or at least an excuse for the rapist
(read my prior posts)

But we don't say "his bad judgement led to the robbery" and us it as a defense for the robber.

Rape is a crime unlike any other.