[EternalVigilance]

If that isn't scolding, I don't know what is.

[SONbrad]

Uh. Read it again. Perhaps if you weren't in such a nasty mood you would see it for what it is. Try to relax, take a deep breath. Maybe shut your eyes for a few minutes.

Feel better?

By the way, if you want to see the difference between this advise and "scolding", I'd be glad to scold you! LOL!