[RnMomof7]

1. Bonds your husband more to you.

I do not think it is sex that bonds a couple (We had a friend with a bedridden wife . He bathed her and turned her and cooked and cleaned.) This was not in response to to their sex life..he loved her

Sex expresses the love between a man and his wife it is not the cause of it. If a man is prone to extra marital sex he will have it anyway (look at our resident swinger..he just talked his "beloved wife" into joining in the sin....ah such love!!)

2. Significantly reduces probability of infidelity<

Depends. If you want that answer fully it comes in a plain brown wrapper

3. Certainly Enhances the home atmosphere (relational)

Fully agree

4) would you be willing to have sex on request? (or would you have been willing to have sex on request?...if that applies better)

This again is a tricky question. We are to treat our spouse as more important that our self.So if a husband sees he has an exhausted wife that needs sleep, and he asks (or demands it )any way he is not placing her needs ahead of his..on the other hand even if a wife it very tired and her husband desires it, if she refuses him she id not placing his needs above hers..

So I do believe that an element of give and take and complete honest wins the day, with each one giving the other the consideration that they would like to receive

[xzins]

I'm logging your response as a "no."

It was a hypothetical: IF such and such (those 3 things) were TRUE, would you agree to on request sex from a husband?

Your answer is: "let's discuss." (And I don't remember that being one of the responses. LOL. But it is very, very, like the woman I live with every day. :>)