[OMalley]

Yep:)

Ive tried putting the bug in the ladys ear whose hubby hasnt gotten lucky in 2 years, but by the sounds of the book she gave me, he is in for another 2.

Its dangerous i think, considering he travels 5 days out of a week. Lots of opportunity and not alot of motivation to say no.

I think what you said is true..they are iether a saint, afraid of divorce or have another woman or man (as in the cheating women, not men, we hope) lol

This family member now puts the bug in anyones ear who will listen. shortly after the event, she was "informing" every woman we met at that mall whod listen LOL

[patton]

four years? One might make the assumption that the abandoned spouse had found another outlet.

In Virginia law, it is actually called that: "constructive abondonement."

It means not paying attention.