Then you need to do a little more reading.
As stated before, the other parties must bear their part in the blame, but so must Serbia.
I am sure there are exaggerated claims on all sides, but that does not mean any of them are blameless.
Just out of curiousity, how old were you in 1991?
How well do you remember the actual events?
No insult intended, just wondering if you experienced that part of world history as an adult, or if you were still a child, adolescent, teenager, etc..
( I was 44 years old, and kept very close track of every thing that happened during that time. )
Then you need to do a little more reading.
I don't think so. I mean, after the "racak massacre" and the story about the "death camp" at Tchornopoliya finally getting out, which other stories about "Serb atrocities" am I supposed to still believe??