[snowstorm12]

My boyfriend is younger than me and how sweet it is. I always get asked out by guys younger than me, but all men fall in love with me when they see me anyway. This one guy who was 17 saw me and wanted to go out with me and even asked me if I went to the catholic girls school. I was like HUH? and I told him the reason I didn't want to go out with him was because he was way too young. Then he copped an attitude about how age isn't important blah blah blah. I didn't want to go out with him because I was way out of his league. Males are really delusional. Men usually pout and stalk me until they finally get the picture I want nothing to do with them.

It's great dating younger no baggage like kids and wasn't wiped out financially by previous wives and child support and he didn't have like 3 marriages that went south. If a guy is divorced that's a red flag the wife threw him out for good reason. A guy who is that old who has never married is also another red flag that something is probably majorly wrong with him kinda like when kids pick teams and he is the last guy picked because nobody wants him. My younger guy is fun, successful, kind, goodlooking and is super sweet. The younger guy I'm with is the best man I ever met and I got suckered in by an older creep and he was the worst. I dumped him at the first hint of trouble.

[Poohbah]

Ahem. One reason older women are going for younger guys: lots of men in the 40-something bracket have pretty much destroyed their...ahem...mojo...because of over-the-top living.

Or, as a guitarist friend summed it up: "Sex, drugs, and rock-n-roll. Pick one of the first two."

[Hildy]

How old are you?

[snowstorm12]

Oh yeah and another thing I'd like to add. As far as older guys being more stable, mature, nicer and less likely to cheat, that's a lie! Ladies don't believe it, it's a trick and a scam. It all depends on the individual. The older guys who refuse to date their own age are worse than the younger ones and 'you' aren't the only younger woman he wants now that he is free from the first two wives ROFL. Don't be fooled ladies! He will trade you in 5 years or sooner he probably has a track record to prove it, go check it out if you don't believe it.

I guess if you are dating an older man for the short term for financial gain it's all well and good. That is the only reason young girls date older. Older men are not marriage material and the younger guys have just as much money if not more these days so you get the best of both worlds and don't have to make sure it is pitch black in the room in order to have sex with the old man.

I can understand though, steal what you can and get out is my advice because that is all you will get out of it. Older men just use younger women for their looks. You're a mere object to him and nothing more. That is a red flag that the guy has no interest long term because superficial looks are the top priority he is looking for, that is why he exclusively dates young looks only. "true love" is last on the list...

At least if you get screwed over by a younger guy you had somebody good looking to parade around and make all the girls jealous and hot guy and hot sex.

I've noticed that the chicks that date older men are the leftovers the ones that the guys her age don't want. The really hot looking young chicks can only be bribed into being his woman if he has several millions or billions. These girls want nothing to do with old men either. If you don't believe it. Tell your younger gal that you went bankrupt and need to move into the local housing projects. See how long she sticks around. I give her three days tops.

[Conservababe]

So you're a valley girl, yes?

[Chemist_Geek]

A guy who is that old who has never married is also another red flag that something is probably majorly wrong with him kinda like when kids pick teams and he is the last guy picked because nobody wants him.

Gee, thanks, I guess graduate studies was the wrong thing to focus upon for those years...