first of all : DoughtyOne rocks... although I often do NOT agree with him. What a gentleman.
second of all: I am not sure I would ever feel too sad about them... but I do see the woman scorned angle... and agree with you.
third of all: take a look at this thread when you get a few moments.
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/991842/postsThanks for referring me to that article. Makes sense to me, but I will read it another time when my eyes are feeling a bit less tired.
I also don't agree with D-1 on a few subjects, but as you said, he is a gentleman. And he is honorable.