[HamiltonJay]

I see, so in the black community its ok to be vein about your hair, while you become morbidly obese??? And they wonder why young black men with potential don't date black women......


Amazing.

[cyborg]

reading some of the magazines lately, some girls are whining about Jennifer Lopez' popularity and how before J.Lo black girls has big butts. Well actually the reason why Jennifer Lopez is so popular is because her rear is curvy but it's not FAT. Doesn't matter anyway. All the stars are trying to look like her.

Your statement could start Terry McMillan fans hurling books at you. I mostly agree. A lot of the ladies have not kept up with the trend of being fit, in shape and tight. The use the excuse that they don't need to look like white women,etc. Not about looking like someone else, or who you attract, it's about health.