[Vigilantcitizen]

"But personally, I can think of a lot more backrubs I've enjoyed than sexual experiences. On the one hand, it's kind of sad."

"And on the other hand you have different fingers."

"Err.."

Bwhahaha..All I was trying to say was, backrubs can be incorporated into sex, and can be a part of an effort to bring spice into a stale relationship, same as a romantic, candlelight dinner.

Imagination can be a good thing.

[Vigilantcitizen]

I can't help it that I'm a perfectionist.

[Quix]

I certainly agree.

I just think some need to focus on the pleasures of backrubs longer than others--so that the tension over performance anxieties has a good long chance to die--at least die down enormously.