[ValerieUSA]

Part of the man's vow is to "cherish" his wife... if you can no longer do that (which you do not) then there is no point in keeping the rest of the vow. It is broken. If she cheated on you, the covenant ceased to exist as a fact way back then. If you had a business partner who embezzled thousands of dollars from your company, would you feel bound to him by contract, or free to dissolve the partnership?

[Darksheare]

Valerie, you know me.
What would I be doing 'behind teh scenes'?
*chuckle*
I am currently looking into procuring a divorce.
Doing so quietly since I don't want anymore screaming matches from her.
But I've pretty much given up on trying to fix anything.

[sweetliberty]

Being unfaithful is the one justification the scriptures allows for divorce. Forgiveness is an option, but only works when the offender is repentant and desiring of forgiveness and it sounds as if that isn't the case.

Dark, give yourself a chance at a happier life. I have gotten the impression from your posts that you are still quite young. While commitment to your vows is a virtue, Val and others have rightly pointed out that the covenant between you and your wife has already been broken by her, thereby releasing you to consider other options.